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Vacations with the little ones ain’t all tantrums and tiredness – seriously – there are many reasons for travelling with kids.
Take it from us, the good times of exploring near and far don’t have to end once you become a parent, which many people still believe, unfortunately.
We have been travelling with our two daughters from when they were babies to this day now they are teenagers.
Over the years we’ve noticed some valuable benefits to traveling with kids. Yes, it does mean you have to evolve your style of travel, but in my opinion, it’s usually for the better.
If you’re on the fence about taking your kids abroad, here are some reasons why traveling with kids creates a better traveling experience for the whole family.
Reasons For Traveling with Kids
1. Kids force you to SLOW down

My number one travel tip I generally give people is to SLOW DOWN and spend more time in fewer places.
When you travel with kids, you basically have no choice but to plan for a slower pace than you might usually attempt if traveling solo or as a couple.
They force you to be realistic about what you can and can’t do in the time frame you have. They don’t allow you to cram too much in to your itinerary (if you do you learn that lesson pretty quickly), and for the most part, I recommend you set the pace of your trip to what your youngest child can handle.
Plus, on road trips they force you to build into your agenda time for stops along the way for snack breaks, toilet breaks and play time – often this leads us to stopping at small towns or beaches we would never have visited.
Slowing down allows you to practice your patience and gain a better appreciation for the destination you visit.
Other benefits of slow travel include
- You spend less money – the more you move around by taking flights, buses, trains or road tripping the more you spend on tickets and fuel. Too much transport can really eat into your budget.
- The less you feel you have to see, the more enjoyable and stress-free for EVERYONE.
- You get to know a region well – instead of racing from one end of a country to another, or tearing through 6 countries in 6 weeks, you’ll get a better feel for a place and learn about the best things to see and do, and build a connection with the locals.
- Less burnout – having to pack and unpack, deal with many airports, bus terminals, boarder crossings and even visa issues can lead to burn out.
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2. Kids force you to meet people

Kids are incredible ice breakers for conversations, and they can be best friends with total strangers within 5 minutes.
For adults, we can stand distant from others for hours, even days minding our own business without ever saying hello to someone.
Kids, they just look at each other and they’re off playing like long lost cousins.
When our kids start playing with other kids, of course, we then engage with their parents, it’s rude not to right? And it’s an easy conversation starter.
Because of this, we’ve met so many other interesting travelers we may never have had a conversation with, which can lead to friendships or at the very least, the sharing of tips, stories, and a chance to learn about different cultures – maybe even a different language.
Same goes for meeting the locals in foreign countries. From our experience, people just come up to us and start interacting with our kids, and in Asia they love to cuddle your babies!
Be prepared for your children to be picked up, cuddled, and have photos taken of them in some foreign lands. Breathe, and enjoy the new experience of meeting friendly strangers.
3. It’s an excuse to stay in apartments

Before family vacations, we never considered staying in apartments as a way to save money on accommodation. It was mostly cheap hotels or hostels.
But now we love staying in apartments, whether it’s inner city or on the beach, and it’s mainly because of our kids we gave them a shot.
Most big-city hotel rooms were not built for families with young kids. They usually have no refrigerator or microwave, floor space is at a premium, and neighbors can hear every tantrum.
But with an apartment, you get more space, thicker walls, a kitchen, a washing machine, and separate bedrooms.
These extra facilities, especially for a long stay, can make your trip so much more enjoyable. Try it, and even consider sharing a 4-bed apartment with another family to really make it economical.
4. Kids force you to stay in safe, central locations

When it was just us adults, we’d often stay wherever we got the cheapest price, and sometimes those neighborhoods were out of the way or in dodgy locations and especially creepy coming home late at night.
Now that we have kids we are conscious of staying in a safe, central location that’s also close to local attractions, food outlets, the beach, the park, and all preferably within walking distance.
This has a flow on effect of saving us time and money in getting to places, and provides more options for cheap local eats, especially if we’re staying in a hotel or motel as we don’t want to have to eat in their expensive restaurants.
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5. They force you to go on road trips

Before we left on our road trip around Australia, we seriously considered doing a big trip through Asia. That was until we spent 2 weeks in Thailand where the only real option was using public transport to get around the country.
At the time, Savannah was 2 years old, and in those early years it was tough to deal with in Asia and we longed for having our own vehicle and going at our own pace.
If your kids are still at an early age, road trips are the best. By having your own vehicle and a place to store your stuff, and you have LOTS of stuff with kids, it makes for a more pleasant experience than having to load and unload everything constantly on planes, trains, mini-vans, tuk-tuks – you name it.
And by having the flexibility to stop when you want to stop, to be able to slow down or speed up, or divert from your initial route, is priceless. You can’t do that so much when relying on public transport.
6. They become citizens of the world

There is only so much your child can learn in school, but there is nothing that travel can’t teach.
Travel enables children to become citizens of the world – that means they will have access to and the chance to learn from new cultures that they may not have the chance to mingle with at home.
By mingling with diverse cultures and communities, they will learn about different ways of life, see how other people live, maybe those people live with more frugal lifestyles or have other ways to find happiness. They may also learn a new language.
Whether you go to Europe or Asia or South America, the cultures they integrate with will teach them more than any classroom could.
7. They push you out of your comfort zone

Travel allows you to expand your horizons and try new things. If your kids have a sense of adventure and love to climb trees, or talk to new people, then travel will be the perfect outlet for them to push their comfort zone.
Whether it’s trying new foods or going on ATV tours or riding in hot air balloons. Travel gives you a chance to conquer your fears, or do something more daring than you would at home.
8. You become an all-round nicer person

As you visit new places, you will see all kinds of different experiences – such as chaotic traffic in Bangkok, or crowds of people in India, and these experiences can make you reflect on what life looks like back at home.
This reflection is a strong foundation for becoming a more compassionate and empathetic human being.
Travel sparks curiosity, but it also builds empathy, tolerance and understanding. By managing the stressful situations, and by allowing your kids to see you manage those situations, they can grow their self-confidence and learn to try and solve any problems that come up for them.
Travel can also inspire creativity, especially if you take your children to interactive museums, galleries, and to take part in workshops. We love doing cooking classes when we travel with our kids, and our daughters have grown up loving cooking because of it.
9. You get used to broken routines

If you live like on a schedule, travel allows you to break that. This is a good thing, as when something interrupts our routines or schedule, it can often leave you feeling anxious.
Some people travel with a schedule, but rarely do these schedules go as planned. Travel allows you to embrace the chaos, embrace that things don’t often go how you want them to, and it means when you return home, you don’t get that anxiety when things go off-piste.
10. The memories last a lifetime

Even when travelling with toddlers and young children who haven’t developed their long-term memory yet, you will find that those experiences will still last a lifetime.
Our kids have grown up patient and respectful of others, which I put down to their travel experience as young children.
Travel for us is all about family bonding, and we have a very close bond that will last for a lifetime. I am sure even when my daughters leave home, or start their own families, we will be forever bonded by our shared experiences in their upbringing.
Now, how can that not be a reason to travel with kids?
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What do you think of these reasons for traveling with kids? Can you think of any more? Let us know in the comments.
Awesome reasons to travel with kids and I think also it forces you to make the most out of living every day, and you have to be in the moment. If you’re not, all hell breaks loose! But seriously, they do open your eyes to all sorts of new things and it’s lovely to see the world through a child’s eyes too.
Absolutely Jo, sometimes we can question what we’re doing, but then we see a smile or hear a laugh from our kids and we are quickly reminded of the fun memories we are creating together.
Great post! I love the way kids have the ability to infect you with their enthusiasm over seemingly everyday things, an unexceptional view becomes exceptional when your four old begins raving about it.
Yes, their enthusiasm is contagious. I love that too James!
I think it’s a benefit for kids also. They may learn that there are countries with people talking different languages, eating different meals. They can experience things that you can’t find in your country/city. Shortly, they can learn to become cosmopolitans. These benefits may not be immediately, but the kids will accumulate experience.
Totally Catalin. HUGE benefits for kids, I’m seeing that first hand everyday with our kids. Good point!
You create life long memories as a family together. On our return we load all our travel photos onto an apple tv and let them run on the screen during family meal times and all ‘guess the place’ and reminisce…. keeps the memories alive with the kids long after the trip has finished.
Awesome idea Chris. It’s so important to accumulate memories, and not just possessions. Memories live on and don’t lose value. Possessions, not so much!
Really, nobody could have thought that way about traveling with kids. Well, if they are sober and obedient, I am fine, otherwise I am the kind of person who gets exasperated with them! I agree with ‘breaking the ice’ part. Kids have the ability to give adults a new, interesting take on everything in life.
You talking about the parents or kids being sober?? 🙂
of course, kids!
I completely agree with all of these. One that I would add is that kids make you appreciate things about the travel experience that you otherwise might not notice. Last weekend, we spent 4 days outdoors near San Francisco, and experiencing it with them made it so much more special…crossing creeks to look for special rocks, learning to “hike” at age 3, etc. made us fall in love with the area in a way we wouldn’t have otherwise.
Nice experience Jenna. So much enthusiasm looking for things like rocks and shells on a beach 🙂
A great post and totally agree with all your points. Whenever I’m in a new place I find my way to where local children are. It’s so easy to start talking to them and finding out more about that new place. They’ll mostly love to tell you everything they know!
Yep, no secrets with kids AkwaabaGolden. Good idea!
Totally agree with all of these reasons, especially the first one about forcing parents to slow down while traveling. There are so many reasons why traveling with kids is beneficial for parents, and one I’d like to add is that they force you to see the world through their eyes. Kids always have questions about everything and while traveling, these questions help us take the time to reflect and capitalize on the self-discovery that travel magically creates. By being more observant and providing simple answers to kids’ endless questions, we become more mindful of ourselves as well as the world we live in.
So many questions Cliff. Too true.
I like the different perspective they bring to what they see! Mine are constantly questioning things which makes me re-evaluate what I think.
With our 10-month-old, we’re already learning these things, esp the 2-bedroom apartment necessity! Which makes accomm a little more expensive, but definitely more enjoyable–especially for all those nights we’re housebound after 7:30, when he goes to bed. We’re looking forward to traveling a lot more near and far with our little guy!
Lovely post! Reminded me of my childhood when I used to do such things out of curiosity and also to irritate my parents at times. Thanks! Made me nostalgic 🙂
This is a wonderful post!
We love traveling with our daughter and all the points you talked about are part of what makes that so enjoyable.
One of the things we love the most about it is that our bond with her grows stronger with all the new things we experience together. Seeing new places, experiencing different cultures, trying new food… all of that helps us grow closer as a family.
Love the shot of your family in Bangkok!
My favourite bit is seeing the world through my son’s eyes.
They are so innocent and take note of little things you just don’t even see.
It is a joy to travel with kids – who would have thought!
When I already had a family of my own .I will definitely bring my kids in my travels.
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Just the fun of making memories together, see how they love it and the powerful feeling that you did it!
For us the biggest benefit is spending family time together. Our lives are so hectic today that we don’t get to spend as much time together as we would like too. Our family vacations solve that problem.
Wonderful to have found this web site!! I do a lot of road trips here in South Africa with my 1.5 yr old daughter. I’m a single mom and many people ask me: How do you DO it? But I can’t imagine NOT sharing the things I love most with my daughter so I HAVE to travel. And just to see her little face light up with each new boat trip or safari. It is priceless!!
I completely agree with these points. Part of the reason we blog is just to show that travel doesn’t have to stop just change with children. Slowing down and appreciating things is definitely up there on the list. We still haven’t worked out how to road trip well as our baby hates the car seat – whoever said all babies love them were lying!
Great article! Great blog! Definetely worth reading!
Thanks for reading Giorgos!
I love the ice breaker part! Also that you get to do things that otherwise you wouldn’t like looking into the pilot cabin, on special rides, parades, called to be on stage for shows, making sand castles… Without looking silly! People ar also more accommodating, from flight attendants to life savers and waitresses.